There is a right way, and a wrong way, to get attention as a slave. The
problem is so many don’t seem to know what the *right* ways are. This topic
came to mind recently at a gathering, albeit not a Gorean one.
The problem, as I saw it, was so many of the “self-labelled” slaves
were behaving like princesses. Like attention seeking pets. At best they were
being brats. I saw a difference I’d never really considered - Goreans don’t
take kindly to be forced to give attention to a kajira, unlike BDSM dominants
who are happy to play along with their submissive counterpart.
Had I been at the feet of a Gorean Man and tied his shoe laces
together, I would have received at least a growled word of warning, the same if
I had taken hold of a dominants trousers in my teeth and growled. If I had
continued, it probably would have ended in a whipping.
In fact, I have growled and hissed at a Gorean Man before – it resulted
in my head at His feet and a stern warning not to repeat it before being
dismissed from His sight. Goreans do not play with brats.
So it’s easy really, to tell the right way to get attention and the
wrong way. A kajira is to have absolute obedience and exquisite beauty. So by
being obedient, by being as well kept and pleasantly spoken, a kajira gets
attention. What is most pleasing to Gorean Free is a subtle wit, and eager to
please attitude and an openness that the average ‘submissive’ does not possess.
After all, a slave can own nothing, not even her most embarrassing secrets.
Attention is not always a good thing, sometimes it is okay to just be
sat by a Man, or in the presence of Free, as unobtrusive as possible, being allowed there is a reward in
itself – not all rewards are treat-based. And the Free appreciate being able to
talk amongst themselves, without having to coddle a slave every few minutes.
Exquisite beauty. Absolute obedience. An eagerness to please. Nothing else
would draw the (positive) attention of a Free Man.
I wish you well,
Kamira.